StepMom Knows Best...is an eleven-page step by step guide for mothers who have been through the same life-changing experience that our daughter is experiencing. Jelena is our daughter's Mom and lives about five hours away from her in our family's native country of Brazil. She's only three years old but already has many friends. Sometimes she will sit on our laps or sleep in our bed and watch us. Sometimes her visits are so welcome that we just want to welcome her home, but most of the time she just comes to visit..